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Okay, so I just spent the last 30 minutes updating my site due to upcoming changes on Wix. A bit frustrating, and definitely unexpected; but here we are on the new page, so welcome!! (Even though it looks exactly the same) ;p I'm starting at 2:45 rather than 2:15, but, oh well...
Anyway, another busy month is nearly gone, and I'm posting again for the first time in over 2 weeks. Meanwhile, Mike has been here overnight 2x, and I've been in Brattleboro for several days in between. We've also been to the Court House in Franklin twice. Mike's daughter, Arianna, is struggling to gain full custody of her son, Takoda. As it turns out, she's having to appeal the judge's decision on the ex parte motion she had put up to get him away from his abusive, drug using/dealing male ancestor. The good news is, she had another court date in relation to her criminal record involving the same guy. All that she needs to do for that is pay the fine and not get in trouble for the next year. If that decision had gone sideways, she would be facing 3 yrs in prison, so thank God for that, at least!! Continued prayer for her situation and resettlement.
During my time at home this past week, I've been taking a break from all the "stuff", which is why I coulda, shoulda, woulda posted, but didn't. I did, however go up to Andrea's early Wednesday morning ahead of Matt's latest hospital release. I haven't heard any updates, but pray that all is going well with them, at least health-wise. At the same time, there have been construction crews at the edge of the property and she's 99+% sure they are encroaching on her parents' land. So now, along with everything else, she's going to be double-checking the property lines and making some sternly-voiced phone calls if she's right.
So, on Saturday the 19th, when Mike and I were coming back from Brattleboro, we stopped at my parents' place to drop off some food from one of the pantries. In the 5 minutes or so we were there, two things happened. One, before Mike followed me inside, my mother hugged him!! I had already gone in the house, so I didn't see it, but Mike said that my father was as shocked as he was!! Now, that being said, we're not entirely sure if she meant it or if, in her failing mind, she somehow thought she was hugging my ex, Rob, with whom she had been so enamored. I know that I overheard my father say, "Good to see you", knowing, even in his mentally failing state, that he was talking to Mike. I can't help but wonder if this is what prompted her to think it was Rob standing there. I mean, they're both big, dark-haired guys, although Mike is mostly bald... IDK... but the second thing I observed was that the people who have been staying with my parents for the past year now, were sleeping in the Living Room. And this was after the conversation from earlier this month, that "Oh, no. They're not still staying here, but still welcome to visit when they have a doctor's appointment or whatever." What the heck!!?? They were supposed to have been out by April 1st according to what I was led to believe. I'm at a loss. My oldest, Carissa, has taken charge of all the "official stuff" for them, and has been talking about calling Elderly Services if those people weren't out already... IDK Just pray that everything will be settled soon.
This Message Intro paragraph is going to be another that "borrows" from Pastor Matt's opener again. At least to start with...
If you grew up in the 70's-80's like I did, one song you may think of in relation to work is Huey Lewis and the News, "Workin' for a Livin'". Another might be "Summer Time Blues", if you love Alan Jackson. Going back a bit, I think of "Proud Mary" as a "work" song. Or maybe "She Works Hard for the Money", by Donna Summer. I'm sure if I gave myself a minute or two I could think of more (I Want My MTV is another)... LOL
The point is, work has a huge place in most of our lives, to the point where there are numerous songs either celebrating it, lamenting it, or if you're into older Country Music, even quitting with some attitude.* Personally, my work history bears a striking resemblance to Swiss Cheese. Essentially, full of holes, both big and small. ;p That being said, I haven't held an official job since 2012. I was diagnosed as High Functioning PDD* in 2006, divorced in 2010, and applied for Disability in 2013 after having moved into a temporary housing situation. Because of this, I haven't always felt like the subject of work, as related to Biblical themes, applied to me anymore. As this series shows, I was wrong... Let's look...
Pastor Matt's synopsis of the message series, which he gave following the whole "Workin' for a Livin'" bit, explains why I've been mistaken about work themes not applying to me. It is this - "Work is how we contribute to the world around us; no matter what that looks like." That means that work themes can literally apply to anyone, of any age over 5 yrs old. School-age kids work by going to school, young adults either attend college and continue a formal education, join the military, or start working. Those of us who have psychological or physical challenges so that employment doesn't fit well still interact with family members, friends, and neighbors in the community, and retired people have more time for more meaningful connections than just talking to co-workers every work day. Also, in today's world, Social Media and other online connections are important environments for many of us to interact. (I know that's true for me)
Another perspective here is that it isn't only our spiritual connections that have value. When we consider our jobs (especially secular ones) as something separate from our spiritual lives, we are missing the point that, in God's eyes, it's all connected. It's important to remember that we're not just Christians on Sunday. (or shouldn't be anyway)*
For the first sermon in this series, we start at the Beginning (a very good place to start) LOL -- No, but seriously, turn with me to Genesis chapter 2 -- As Pastor Matt pointed out here, God's redemption is for both our soul and our work. Therefore, we begin with Sabbath --
Genesis 2:1-3
New International Version
2 Thus the heavens and the earth were completed in all their vast array.
2 By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. 3 Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done.
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God's gift of Sabbath is a sign of His love and a reminder that we are more than what we do. (Personally, it saddens me when I see people retire with no clue as to how to live without a job. This is exactly why hobbies are so important.) We need to be able to introduce ourselves with our INTERESTS, not our JOB TITLES.*
Looking at verse 1 of our brief, but very impactful Scripture, we find God resting upon His completion of Creation. I realize that this kinda sounds like we're starting with work because there's work that's already happened here, but bear with me.
The first thing to understand here is the Jewish definition of "Creation". To them, the the word "nothingness" means "chaotic".
Pastor Matt also mentioned at this point that many of his ideas and material for this message came from two sources he respects highly. One is BEMA podcaster, Marty Solomon, who bring his Jewish background into play with traditional insights from that quarter. The other is Christian author, Peter Scazzaro, who has a book called "Emotionally Healthy Leadership". He recognizes that Pastors and other Church Leaders are still just human beings at the end of the day, and as such, need to live the same kinds of lives as everyone else when it comes to their psychological well-being.
Getting back to our Bible passage, we look back at chapter 1 and see the same phrase repeated 6 times. "He saw that it was good". This indicates that, number one, nothing was created by accident; and number two, everything was done to His satisfaction. Pastor Matt pointed out here that, in the Ancient Hebrew, the word "good", as seen here meant essentially, that "all is as it should be".
This includes us. We read in Genesis 1:26 that we are made in the image of God. Our goodness, aside from being physically accurate to how He wanted us, lies in our purpose. We may ask ourselves at times, "Does my life matter??". The answer, at least according to the Creator of the Universe, is a resounding YES!! Creation is the image of abundance and flourishing. We see the word "teeming" used in verse 21 in reference to sea creatures.
We also see the rhythms of Creation here. God called things into being and then filled them. Light/Dark = Sun, moon, stars. Land = vegetation. Water = fish ++, and then came the animals and people. There's poetry in the patterns. The evening and the morning... yes, you read that right. Did you ever catch on to that before?? The days of Creation STARTED IN THE EVENING. See, even God started with rest before the work of Creation!! (I told you we were starting with Sabbath, didn't I??) ;)
Verse 2 of chapter 2 tells us that God stopped Creating. Why?? Because, as we saw above, He had it just the way He wanted it. Pastor Matt brought out the example here of a Master Craftsman. This is a person who knows when to stop carving the wood or chiseling the stone. They know when to stop the pottery wheel or put down the torch. They know when to put the brush in the water and leave it there. Now, I went a bit further with these examples than Pastor Matt did. He focused on the fact that Michelangelo knew when to stop carving the David.
The point is that God not only knew when to stop; but that He then proceeded to settle into His finished work. If you've been reading a while, you'll have seen the example of moving used a bit. As we all know, moving requires making a HUGE mess of things before you organize and pack. You then put all your stuff into the truck (or hire out people to do it for you). The new place is ready and waiting. You carry everything to the appropriate room, you unpack it, you put it away, and then what?? You rest. You settle in. You have a new place to live and you begin to relax and enjoy it. That's what God did in our passage above.
On Day 7, the rhythm stops. God desired to be with His Creation. Sadly, this idea went sideways in Chapter 3, but that didn't mean He wanted to leave. It just meant that He had to wait until the time was right to send Jesus and initiate a New Plan of Restoration. Eventually, when Jesus comes again, God will establish a New Heaven and New Earth where we will be with Him for eternity, unending, just like Day 7 of Creation.
On day 6, humans were created, commissioned, and blessed. For us, we rest only after we have accomplished "enough", but even then, we're not super peaceful about it every time. This is just one of the key differences between us and God. His perfection produces more of the same while our imperfection, as a result of sin, produces only imperfect results; if only in our minds.*
Verse 3 of our Scripture above shows us that God set the Sabbath aside as holy and commanded us to follow suit. As Pastor Matt quipped, it even made Moses' and God's "Top 10 list". This established the covenant between God and Israel for all time.
We find the 10 Commandments first in Exodus 20. Verses 8-10 are about keeping the Sabbath holy. Pastor Matt made the observation here that this wasn't just about people resting, but animals as well. Sabbath is for everyone. This indicates to us that God sees rest as being equally valuable as work. He said also that Sabbath is "God's good gift to remind us that we are more than our work." (Remember what I said earlier about that??)
Something Pastor Matt brought to our attention at this point was that the book of Genesis wasn't written all at the same time. The first 11 chapters were nothing more than Oral Tradition at first, and written down over time. This was material that was shared in the wilderness when they were exiled in Egypt and the only identity they had lay (laid) (lies)??* in their brick making. No one alive at Mt. Sinai, following the Exodus, had been alive to remember life outside of slavery. They were in Egypt for 400 yrs., so... yeah...
In closing, we are not what we do, we are who God says we are. Our meaning, our worth, our purpose, our identity, all comes from Him as our Creator. Sabbath was built in by God. Whether we are a "cog" in the wheels of industry, a business owner, a kid with chores and schoolwork, or someone who doesn't get paid for a living, but still has a vital place in the community, we all have our own rhythms of life where rest is important. Some of my older readers may still remember a time when Sunday was a day of rest from every possible thing. You went to Church in the morning as a family, and spent the remainder of the day eating lunch, napping, reading, fishing etc... other than tending to any livestock, you rested. It was/is meant to be a time of refreshing. It's a time to focus on relationships, food, and nature. Psalm 23 talks about the importance of walking with God in order to have peace in our lives, even when there's trouble around. Mark 2:27-28 tells us that Jesus Lord of the Sabbath.*
Bottom line, the world won't stop if we take some time to rest. Just trust God by receiving His unconditional love. It's fine. He's got it covered. Take a nap!! (Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup) ;)
-- God Bless!!
Footnotes:
1. Look up the song, "Take This job and Shove It", by Johnny Paycheck. You won't regret it!!
2. For those who may not know about PDD (Pervasive Developmental Disorder), it's on the edge of the "Autism Umbrella", like one of the nubs on the ends of the ribs. I'm not entirely neuro-divergent, but I have my quirks. The biggest thing to know about it is that being literal is pretty much my "default setting". That being said, however, the High Functioning bit means that I'm not Amelia Bedilia. (look up the Children's books if you're not familiar) Other aspects include low stress threshold, emotional immaturity, and co-morbid ADD. (Yeah, I'm a treat) LOL Basically, while the "standard level" PDD person is super literal with no sense of humor, I'm here with my sarcasm and a decent comprehension of allegory. The example I like to use is pouring rain. If you were to tell an average PDD person that it was "raining cats and dogs outside", they would look out the window looking for them. I, on the other hand, would look out the window, look back at you, and say, "Yikes!! That would have to hurt!!". Because I understand that it's just and expression.
3. The thing about not only being Christians on Sunday reminds me of a song from the late 70's/early 80's called, "I'm Not Religious, I just love the Lord". I'll include it below.
4. Watch the movie, "Mr. Magorium's Magic Emporium" again... or for the first time. It touches on this idea.
5. The part where I mention how peacefulness about our work is a key difference between us and God is all mine.
6. I may be pretty good with Grammar, but I'm not this good... even a brief google search didn't solve this for me... ;p I think I'll send it to Andrea and edit later if needed... She has a degree in English... or I may get a faster response from my HS English Teacher's wife... hhhmmm... :D (okay, so "lay" was right)
7. Any of you Seventh Day Adventists would do well to review this point. The day of the week doesn't matter because Jesus IS our Sabbath!! (See also Matt. 11:28-30)
Music -- Never any rights!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sG6yoghwa9A
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UAJ7rwJWHZE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EICcFjQ_zBQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cc0QVWzCv9k
and this one...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8pPn1ywSaY
(and just so we're clear, I understand that some people NEED to "go to Church before they go to Jesus", but the point of the song remains valid)
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